i am. cracking the code
do you love me? i had to do a little investigating to solve this one, because i truly believe that the male gender gives off just as many mixed signals as females. here’s what i uncovered. 14 clues to help you figure out if he’s feeling your vibe, or really not that into you. you can tell he likes you if:
1.he can’t help but compliment you. (especially on the little things – e.g., “dang amy! your eye color is really pretty amazing”)
2.he’s persistent (but not criminally)
3.he makes ACTUAL DATES & doesn’t break them! lets stop thinking late night booty calls=interest. you don’t have to be sherlock holmes to know what a 2 am ‘wanna hang?’ means.
4.he asks questions & remembers what u say. if he remembers what your cousin’s middle name was after you mentioned it for a hot sec, that’s evidence that he’s smitten.
5.he introduces you to his friends. once he starts showing you off, you’re officially in.
6.he holds eye contact. & gives you the ‘she is the most amazing thing i’ve ever seen’ look.
7.he gets nervous. sweaty palms are HOT (and a dead giveaway that he’s into you).
8.he finds excuses to touch you. “oh, is that a new tattoo?” as he grabs your hand.
he probably ISN’T all about you if…
1.he gives you mixed signals. come on girls, if he cant tell you what he wants with you, he probably doesn’t want anything.
2.he has to choose between u and someone else. dont settle for second option.
3.he uses his phone when he’s with you. he obviously doesn’t really care about what you have to say (not that you aren’t interesting! u are!)
4.his snap score increases, but he isn’t responding to u
5.his tweets are mainly about sex & contain rude content. shows he’s probably just into you for the hookup
6.he’s overly smooth. these guys have the easiest time stealing your heart and leaving you holding the bag.
ladies, trying to figure out a guy’s intentions can be more challenging than uncovering Tupac’s killer. so, i think it’s time we channel our inner nancy drew and crack this code.
