i was a b1t¢h in middle school. i’m talking regina george from meal girls type vibe. competitive, petty, & overall a trash human. every time i look back i cringe.
thankfully, i am no longer that person & really thank god that no one looks at me and sees my middle school self. not everyone is so lucky.
take my best friend for example, just two days ago she was told by some guy she has been snapping for three weeks that he didn’t want to meet her anymore. he said it was because she did an anonymous question thingy on snap & got a bunch of guys from her past messaging.
now, mind you, she does have some crazy stories from high school (she was a teenager after all), but i have seen her mature so much in the past two years. i bet she hardly identifies with her high school self either. that’s why it’s so frustrating when she is constantly seen as the same (and written off because of it as well).
people are constantly growing, changing, becoming. i know for sure i wouldn’t want to be judged by who i used to be…. would you?