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i am. prejudged

so…. i started dating, again. &, although i’m in college and thought my high school reputation was behind me, it’s clear that it’s still very much alive. just the other day i was asked about my sexual history. although i was very upfront about the fact that i’ve only been with with one person, i was asked if i was lying because it was inconsistent with the rumors (p.s. i’m not lying. telling the truth is the point of this blog). i couldn’t get mad, because i understood where the concern was coming from. it’s just frustrating, ya dig?

he ended up trusting me, and thank god he did. it turns out that he is funny, incredibly smart, cute & even SENDS MEMES!!!! i’m not sure what will happen, but i hope he thinks he made the right decision to trust me.

i guess what i’m trying to say is that you shouldn’t let others dictate how you should feel or who you should trust. you might just miss out. i’m not saying that you should ignore rumors. i mean many have some basis in reality, but not all of them do. i am a case in point. so tread carefully, but judge for yourself. you never know what could happen.