i occasionally get flirty dms from guys with gfs. i usually write them off as d-bags and assume they’re going to have a lifetime of crappy relationships. but recently i started to wonder why people cheat. i mean, it can literally ruin a person’s trust in relationships. it just doesn’t seem possible to me that all of these cheaters can…

ok, that was only PARTIALLY clickbate happy valentines day! i have the biggest love/hate relationship with this holiday. like, regardless of the fact that i dont have a date, i really love seeing people in love (see, not completely clickbait). you can’t deny that seeing two people completely infatuated with one another isn’t the sweetest thing. but seeing two people…

or am i? it seems as if everyone has a different definition of the term ‘hook up’ & its making things kinda complicated. some of you said it refers to making out, while others say it involves something more sexual. and some think it depends on whether you’re in high school or college & beyond (apparently college makes us more…

that is, until i like someone yanno when you meet someone really dope? but, like, have to pretend as if he’s completely irrelevant to your life. ya, i’m not really good at that whole thing. i text back right away. i’ll make the first move. i’ll even change my plans to hang. when i’m really into someone, and he is…

earlier today i was on the phone with my mom bellyaching about how i am literally going to FAIL one of my classes and how it is so hard and boring and blah blah blah. i’m sure we have all been there. but she reminded me of something. torturing myself by stressing is not gonna get the job done. my…

in response to my last post, i got dozens of texts and dms from people telling me that they, too, have felt the same way i was feeling. & man, when one of my best friends admitted that she was one of them, you best believe i was SHOOK. like how could i go years without having any idea that…

i started crying in yoga last week. yes, crying. not tears of sadness, but of joy. i’m sure you haven’t noticed, but i’ve never posted anything about body positivity. i kept telling myself that it was because i didn’t want to sound cliche or basic, but deep down i knew that that wasn’t it. it was because i had no…

sure, bucket lists are great and all, but seeing a list with so many things left to be crossed off may give me a little bit of anxiety. so instead of making a list of all of the things i’ve yet to do (become president, visit every country, or even vacuum the rug in my dorm), i’m going to focus…

this may seem like a hot take, but let me just tell you… not all girls are attracted to @$$h0l3$!! i actually question the belief that ‘nice guys finish last,’ mainly because i find guys who do the little things so adorable. which got me thinking… if the saying applies to guys (which i’m not buying, but what do i…

so, it didn’t last as long as i expected. & maybe we called it off a little prematurely? idk. regardless, i’m not going to dwell on the loss of this perfect, imagined relationship. nah. i’m actually thinking it’s best to do just the opposite. i’m accepting the fact that we just didn’t click. his looks may have, momentarily, distracted me…