tis the season, y’all. it’s so weird for me to already be in the christmas spirit because, not gunna lie, i’m kind of a holiday grinch. like, until now, my rule was always no christmas music until christmas eve… no exceptions. but this year is hecka weird & i think i know why. not to sound spoiled (even though i…

look at this picture. i look like i have my shiz together. dress, heels & a purse to match. lookin candid & chill. HAHA LITTLE DO YOU KNOW!! i was cold. the dress didn’t zip all of the way up (accidentally ordered a size too small). i’m wearing blavy (black&navy). i hardly ever use purses. i was hangry. i got…

“i can tell that we are going to be friends” -jack white or maybe i can’t. i have struggled through so many awkward conversations where my ‘pal’ assumes our friendship is more than it is. & bro it sucks! like one day i’m super happy because i think i’ve found this dope person who wants to be my friend &…

so it’s final exam time, aka. the time of year when i get less than my usual 9 hours of sleep & have to strategically make time to shower & eat. i have been so busy this last week that i haven’t even been able to go on pinterest or stalk post malone. as someone who has never had to…

in the last week, i have been screwed over by quite a few people. i was blackmailed for money that is rightfully mine, told that i was a liar, and i was verbally assaulted in a sexual way by someone i used to trust. again, this was in the PAST WEEK! i’m probably not alone here, but people try to…

i will literally tell anyone anything about myself. like, wanna know if i’ve ever tried drugs? i’ll tell ya. wanna know if i’m crushing on anyone? i’ll spill the deets (that is, if i even know how i feel hehe). sex life? sure, you can ask. have i ever felt like an outsider or a loser? ask away. i think…

with your help, of course. after last week’s post, i got a little curious about whether or not my definition of romance is generally the same as everyone else’s, or if im on a whole nother planet. & while a few of you mentioned that you really like the idea of a fancy dinner, for the most part it seems…

sure, they’re made for a reason. they keep order & blah blah blah. but there are some that are absurd and do not deserve to be followed. i mean, we blindly follow them, but how often do we stop to really think about what we’re doing? like what is the purpose of deferring to people with money? i get that…

at least not in the traditional sense of the word. i may be the only girl that feels this way… idk, but i’m not a huge fan of being wined and dined. don’t get me wrong, it is nice every now and then (especially now that all i eat is iffy dining hall food), but i dont think that’s what…

yoga has taught me many things. one of them is that holding boat pose for five minutes is no one’s definition of fun. another is that if you challenge yourself & really focus on your goal, that time will go by so much faster than if you focus on the pain. & you’ll be much stronger because of it. these…