i am. impatient i recently posted a poll on my story asking if girls should make the first move. a whopping 88% of guys said, YES, girls should do it! unfortunately, only a little over 50% of girls actually admitted to ever making a move (both of these polls got over 1k responses). see a slight disconnect? personally, i am…

i am. asking (nicely) ok, so i really hope i’m not the only person that deals with this or else this analogy wont work. do you ever sit in a class and have no freaking idea what you’re doing & feel completely helpless? ya, ok, me in french (pourquoi madame?!?) and when the teacher asks if there are any questions,…

i am. sure lets take a quiz! answer these, please? do you: tan, have a mole, love your dog, have a wide nose, cry at funerals, run, believe in heaven, play video games, wear baseball hats, have skinny calves, watch Netflix, have green eyes, or use instagram? if you answered yes to any of these, then answer one final question.…

i am. surprised by the depth of emotion expressed by guys who have recently dmd me about a girl. one guy wanted to know if the girl he was talking to seemed interested, so he sent me a screenshot of their conversation (“wtf do these mixed signals even mean?!”). another, asked me how he should resolve an argument with his…

i am. part of the problem (sex part III) this week i attended MSU’s orientation. tons of information was thrown at me. the only thing missing was a real discussion about the social aspect of college (i.e., partying and hookups). from what i can tell, this new found freedom brings some pretty significant change (not all good). case in point:…

i am. boolin on a budget “life is too short to wear boring clothes” -Cushnie et Ochs. okay, okay, maybe im not a fashion week designer, but i love fashion. ive always wanted to dress like my favorite style icon, Carrie Bradshaw, but unfortunately, i dont have the same budget to spend on couture. so in order to dress to…

i am. basic bet. i am extra, even. but we love that. how would companies make bank without basic hoes like me? i mean, starbucks is high key the goat & bubble tea has my heart. & not only food, but clothes too! are you really expecting me to show up to wine night without my rosé and snatched fit?…

i am. deceived i was shown a youtube video the other day, and was immediately inspired. i wanted everyone to see what i saw and hear the beautiful, raw storytelling. i put the link to it in my bio, but for those who don’t want to spend the 22 minutes watching it here’s a summary. Jacksgap, a very successful youtuber…

i am. aware (sex part II) that this topic is divisive and that everyone has a belief about what’s right and wrong. wanna wait for marriage? great! think you should only do it when you’re in love? okay. plan to do it well and do it often? awesome. while i happen to believe in the second, how can i possibly…

i am. fickle and its something that doesn’t only hurt me, but others as well. i swear to god, one second i can be head over heels for someone and the next second i dont care if i ever see them again. my emotions change faster than the weather in Michigan. i seem to always hurt people i care about…