but i haven’t always been this way. with a little bit of a ‘fake it ‘til you make it’ mentality, i learned that confidence is truly just a state of mind. let me take you back to the good ol’ middle school days (cringe). i was painfully shy. i didn’t talk much and, when i did find the courage to…

i am. cracking the code do you love me? i had to do a little investigating to solve this one, because i truly believe that the male gender gives off just as many mixed signals as females. here’s what i uncovered. 14 clues to help you figure out if he’s feeling your vibe, or really not that into you. you…

i am. persuaded by packaging anyone have a weakness for pretty packages? i know i do, but i’m often disappointed because the product isn’t as fabulous as the package suggests. it’s like people, some come in really pretty packages. yanno, the ones that look perfect on the outside. the chris browns & meghan foxes. you get the point. others aren’t…

i am. iam about two months ago, i started this blog to help me figure out who the heck i am. aside from being my initials, these 3 letters have so much meaning and have taken on a life of their own. just by adding an adjective to the end of these letters, i have envisioned myself in so many…

i am. cleaning out my closet do you have those friends that are a drain on you emotionally? you know the backstabber, the only your friend when there’s no one else around, the never makes plans friend, the flaky friend, the drama starting friend, and the makes you feel like trash friend. yeah, me too. i had one ‘best friend’…

i am. into you? she loves me, she loves me not? i am very aware that trying to figure out if a girl is into you is harder than the daily crossword puzzle (especially before coffee). thats why i’m here to help. as promised, 14 ways to tell if a girl likes you.1.she constantly stares/smiles at you (or she catches…

i am. friendly sometimes misconstrued as flirting. if i hug you because i haven’t seen you in a while, i’m not flirting. if i like your selfie, nah, not flirting. if i ask to borrow a hoodie because i’m cold, still not flirting. wanna know if a girl is trying to tell you that she’s into you? stay tuned for…

i am. in a relationship (continued) so as many of you have heard (because i spammed your feed)… my love story continues! He returned my affection! (I GOT IN!!) i knew that umich needed some time to think (ugh! I didn’t think he’d need this much time), but i made bae aware that i was good for him. i knew…

i am. in the moment as i was writing thank you cards for my graduation party, i kept asking my mom if the person i was thanking was actually at the party. and thats when it hit me. i planned this party for months, and never got the chance to enjoy it. it was a whirlwind of “hi’s” and “bye’s”…

i am. impatient i recently posted a poll on my story asking if girls should make the first move. a whopping 88% of guys said, YES, girls should do it! unfortunately, only a little over 50% of girls actually admitted to ever making a move (both of these polls got over 1k responses). see a slight disconnect? personally, i am…