i tend to convince myself that my decisions aren’t really influenced by society, but as i grow up i realize that almost ALL of my decisions are influenced by society. for example, lets talk drugs and alcohol. sure i’ve drank (don’t snitch), but it’s looked at as normal. my parents did it, my friends do it, & honestly, no one…
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i am. one
have you ever taken the enneagram test? if not, i highly recommend it (i linked it in my story). it’s basically a personality test that can tell your fears, desires, motivations, and more. don’t get me wrong, i usually just think this stuff is bull, but mine was spot on. so, you might as well just take it and see.…
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i am. wrong
to judge. my mom is seeing this guy & a lot of people think he’s not good enough for her. he smokes, works as a bartender/restaurant manager, lives with his parents & has a mouth like a sailor. people close to her have warned her not to date him (because of the bar scene stereotypes). but as someone who has…
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i am. sad
but only sometimes. one purpose of this blog is to show people that their pain isn’t individual. in fact, a lot of the feelings we experience or the things we have had to tough it through are extremely common. & although i love to give some peace of mind to all of you, i also need it from time to…
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i am. an “influencer”
& as much as i hate that term, i do think that my persona lately has been trying to come off as one. like, i am still posting pictures from europe as if i’m still traveling all of the time. i gram my food as if i eat smoothie bowls and extensive salads every day. i am trying my hardest…
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i am. influenced
ever notice that once your friend starts saying something, no matter how stupid it is, that you start saying it, too? for me its been “i’m that,” which i initially hated, but now i can’t seem to get anything else to come out of my mouth. sure sure, we have all experienced this. but have you ever thought about the…
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i am. spontaneous
there have got to be people out there who hate making plans as much as i do. & i feel like whatever plans i do make sound great at the time, but not necessarily so much when the time comes to actually do them. that’s why i’m so here for spontaneity. impromptu games of euchre or last minute get togethers…
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i am. celebrating
happy birthday to someone out there! don’t you think it’s funny how we celebrate our birthday every year? like all we have to do is survive. the bare minimum. but we get gifts for it. i’m just saying, whoever came up with this idea is a genius. ok so that comment wasn’t completely off topic. my roommates and i were…
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i am. chillin
the other day i met with a friend who needed advice for a project. she asked me about this account. how i started it, my biggest challenges, etc.. one question she asked was “what is the most difficult thing about having your blog?,” this was the easiest to answer. the highs and lows. as it is with many things, the…
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i am. appreciative
don’t you love it when someone does something for you that is just so thoughtful that you can’t stop smiling? i was surprised, recently, with the gift of food (what’s better than this!?). but it wasn’t just any ole food (which is thoughtful enough), but food that was picked out just for me. he took the time to find out…
