if you have been reading my blog for a while, you most likely know that i have struggled a lot with my weight. i went from working out several times a day and counting every calorie to saying frick it and eating dessert for every meal to feeling content in my own skin. it was a long process to get…
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i am. self centered
one of my biggest flaws that has really been bothering me lately is how selfish i am. but no, not in the way PnB Rock talks about it. i have a tendency to make every conversation about myself. like, oh, you had something cool happen to you? ya, well me too. your life sucks? let me tell you about mine.…
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i am. just doing it
no. this isn’t a nike ad (i wish tho). i was looking for blog topics & someone asked me for advice on when to approach their crush. & here it is. just do it. i’m not gunna be like the chicks from girl defined (look it up on youtube) & dance around the simple solution. there will never be a…
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i am. freaking out
why is it a-okay to assume that we have the rest of our lives preplanned?! like, when i was a junior in high school, i felt like i had to know where i wanted to go to college. and now i feel pressure to know exactly what i want to study. & what i choose will be with me for…
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i am. taking care
“self care.” a buzzword used all over the internet. when i hear, it i think face masks, wine and bubble baths. but is that really what makes me feel my best? personally, i think face masks are expensive, id take kombucha over wine and id rather not get pruny in a bubble bath. yet, i tend to do these things…
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i am. not broken
we are made up of our experiences. our mistakes. our heartbreaks. our baggage. how does that make you feel? helpless? broken? how about proud? in yoga, the teacher told us that when some people break something valuable, such as a pot that has been passed on for generations, they glue the pieces together with gold, and it makes the item…
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i am. not expecting it
it’s cuffing season, & i know a lot of people out there are looking for a boo to snuggle up with to watch christmas movies & drink hot chocolate. well, for those people in need, i may have some bad news; it’s typically easier to find a bf/gf that sticks if you’re not looking. sure, i’ve been in and out…
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i am. under the influence
i tend to convince myself that my decisions aren’t really influenced by society, but as i grow up i realize that almost ALL of my decisions are influenced by society. for example, lets talk drugs and alcohol. sure i’ve drank (don’t snitch), but it’s looked at as normal. my parents did it, my friends do it, & honestly, no one…
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i am. one
have you ever taken the enneagram test? if not, i highly recommend it (i linked it in my story). it’s basically a personality test that can tell your fears, desires, motivations, and more. don’t get me wrong, i usually just think this stuff is bull, but mine was spot on. so, you might as well just take it and see.…
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i am. wrong
to judge. my mom is seeing this guy & a lot of people think he’s not good enough for her. he smokes, works as a bartender/restaurant manager, lives with his parents & has a mouth like a sailor. people close to her have warned her not to date him (because of the bar scene stereotypes). but as someone who has…
