i met a girl the other day who said she would really appreciate some advice for incoming college freshmen. because there are so many things to be anxious about, i asked y’all. I know that i am one person, but I have found that many others have had similar issues. here they are, the things you are most anxious about…
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i am. smart
but not the smartest. i am pretty, but not the prettiest. i am honest, but not the most honest. i am kind, but not the kindest. everything is relative. i will never be the most anything, so why try? it sets us up for failure & leaves us always feeling just a little dissatisfied. maybe competing with ourselves would be…
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i am. inexperienced
so, we haven’t talked about sex in a while. probably because it has not been on my radar. (& by sex, i mean i’ve had none of that 🍆🍑🍌🍩🥜 shiz). in a generation where “we met on tinder” will be a common phrase and sex on the first date seems expected, the whole dating thing can be a little intimidating.…
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i am. painfully ordinary
over the past few months, i have been approached by several people in restaurants, coffee shops, stores, at work, at school, and asked if i am that iam.becoming girl. most compliment the page and tell me that i have inspired them in some way. i’m not gonna lie, i’m so flattered. this is a major perk of having this account.…
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i am. not looking forward to it
this blog is all about trying new things, right? well… theres a bunch of things i’ve written off because they SEEM like things i wouldn’t want to do. but imma try some of these things i’ve sworn off & see what happens. here are the things that do not sound fun, but i’m gunna try anyway (kind of an anti-bucket,…
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i am. sassy
let me just tell you. i am a pain in the butt to date. i can be slightly (ok, maybe more than slightly) confusing & sassy when i get comfortable with someone. like, when i say “i hate you,” it really means “i love you.” when i say “you suck,” it means “i appreciate you.” & when i say “frick…
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i am. going for it
if you’ve graduated high school, you most likely have a copy of “oh, the places you’ll go.” & as childish as it may seem on the surface, this book has gobs of wisdom. i mean, he tells us that our destinies are in our own hands. tell me thats not deep. but hey, why dont we actually take some of…
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i am. poor
personally poor, that is (my family’s money is another story). i think most people realize that kids have more fun. maybe it’s because we can use “i’m still a kid” as an excuse for everything. maybe it’s because the world is still so new & we have endless options. maybe it’s because we have little responsibility. or maybe (just maybe)…
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i am. not afraid
ok, shoot, i am a little afraid. but i’m not about to let it rule my life. yesterday i had a surfing accident. the fin on my board took a giant chunk out of my thigh and i had to get nine stitches (i didn’t cry though, not to flex… officially big girl status), but i was terrified. i thought…
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i am. ghosted
oh ya. story time. so i was into this guy, right? we see each other every day & i’m thinking this is great. i kinda think he’s cool and he says he feels the same way about me. i’m forward af (character flaw?) & hate to waste my time, so i asked him if he could possibly see it going…
