at umich at least, finals season is all about who can be the most stressed. & if you dont think you need to stress about finals, you’re stressed about not being stressed. its a hot mess that is just making us less productive in the long run. so, instead of crashing and burning & not being able to study any…
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i am. unaware
yanno when you give someone advice & they just go and do the complete opposite. like… why would you ask in the first place if you’re just going to go and do something stupid anyway? BUT WAIT! theres mOrE!more to the story that is. most of the time we are basing our advice on one side of a story. &…
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i am. doing me
if you have been reading my blog for a while, you most likely know that i have struggled a lot with my weight. i went from working out several times a day and counting every calorie to saying frick it and eating dessert for every meal to feeling content in my own skin. it was a long process to get…
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i am. self centered
one of my biggest flaws that has really been bothering me lately is how selfish i am. but no, not in the way PnB Rock talks about it. i have a tendency to make every conversation about myself. like, oh, you had something cool happen to you? ya, well me too. your life sucks? let me tell you about mine.…
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i am. just doing it
no. this isn’t a nike ad (i wish tho). i was looking for blog topics & someone asked me for advice on when to approach their crush. & here it is. just do it. i’m not gunna be like the chicks from girl defined (look it up on youtube) & dance around the simple solution. there will never be a…
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i am. freaking out
why is it a-okay to assume that we have the rest of our lives preplanned?! like, when i was a junior in high school, i felt like i had to know where i wanted to go to college. and now i feel pressure to know exactly what i want to study. & what i choose will be with me for…
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i am. taking care
“self care.” a buzzword used all over the internet. when i hear, it i think face masks, wine and bubble baths. but is that really what makes me feel my best? personally, i think face masks are expensive, id take kombucha over wine and id rather not get pruny in a bubble bath. yet, i tend to do these things…
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i am. not expecting it
it’s cuffing season, & i know a lot of people out there are looking for a boo to snuggle up with to watch christmas movies & drink hot chocolate. well, for those people in need, i may have some bad news; it’s typically easier to find a bf/gf that sticks if you’re not looking. sure, i’ve been in and out…
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i am. under the influence
i tend to convince myself that my decisions aren’t really influenced by society, but as i grow up i realize that almost ALL of my decisions are influenced by society. for example, lets talk drugs and alcohol. sure i’ve drank (don’t snitch), but it’s looked at as normal. my parents did it, my friends do it, & honestly, no one…
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i am. one
have you ever taken the enneagram test? if not, i highly recommend it (i linked it in my story). it’s basically a personality test that can tell your fears, desires, motivations, and more. don’t get me wrong, i usually just think this stuff is bull, but mine was spot on. so, you might as well just take it and see.…
