I have a very open family, so when my mom and I talked for a half an hour about past sexual experiences at dinner yesterday, it wasn’t all that out of the ordinary. Call me old fashioned, but I’m not typically someone who will kiss on a first date, let alone have sex with someone. My mom always raised me…
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EMBRACING ME
I’ve always hated those people who become carbon copies of their significant other. Who lose their personal identity to become what they think the other person wants them to be. Yet, when I told my boyfriend that he needed to teach me everything about sports, something I don’t have any background in and am not sure I care all that…
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TRUST AGAIN
I’m in Portland, staying with my very recent boyfriend. Still very fresh in the honeymoon phase, I can’t get enough of him. My limbs are drawn to his, tracing my fingers along the veins that run from fingertips to forearm while we speed down the winding highway or our feet doing a dance under the kitchen table while we hang…
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i am. inexperienced
so, we haven’t talked about sex in a while. probably because it has not been on my radar. (& by sex, i mean i’ve had none of that 🍆🍑🍌🍩🥜 shiz). in a generation where “we met on tinder” will be a common phrase and sex on the first date seems expected, the whole dating thing can be a little intimidating.…
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i am. concerned
“boys want sex.” “ALL boys want sex.” “ALL that boys want IS sex.” no wonder it makes me feel as if boys only want sex. but honestly, thats not what i want to believe. i have brothers, cousins, friends, that are guys. i dont want to think that sex is the only thought present in their brains. so guys, please,…
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i am. ending it before it gets started
yanno when you go on a first date & it’s not going exactly as you had hoped? you just can’t seem to picture the other person as more then a friend & don’t exactly see a second date in your future? you don’t have that spark and can’t force it. but worse yet, they dont feel the same way &…